Ron Keliipio: My friend Sam used to be married to Ethel . At one point, they had a son, Ben . Now Sam and Ethel are divorced, and Ben is fourteen years old . Every time Sam wants to do something with Ben, Ethel invites herself along . Sam took Ben to Dairy Queen, and Ethel invited herself . He took Ben to our men’s club picnic, and Ethel invited herself along . He took Ben to our church picnic, and Ethel invited herself along .On Fridays, Ethel picks Sam up and takes him to get his money . They usually go to Burger King, and Sam ends up paying for everybody . When Sam takes Ben to the movies, Ethel invites herself along, and Sam pays for all three of them . She swears up and down that she’ll pay Sam back .Mike and I went to another town for the weekend, and we took Ben . Ben wanted to take Ethel . Mike and I were very much against taking Ethel, but B! en had the money to pay her way, so we had to let it happen . Sam wrote Ethel a letter explaining that they shouldn’t be going to lunch, to the movies and to other towns together . Ethel got all bent out of shape and said that Sam and I owe her gas money for driving us around the other town . I say we shouldn’t give her anything, because she shouldn’t have even come . Do we owe her any gas money ? Should we give her any gas money to be civil for Ben’s sake ? Should Sam deduct it from the money Ethel owes him ? Thank you in advance for your answers ....Show more
Nell Dipiero: Gee I wonder why? I don't think that either gender likes it when they get cheated on. Its not just women that take it personally. I like telling someone they aren't good enough for you and so you have to have someone else.
Isaias Badgley: Oh yes! , very much so. My marriage is great ^^ and it has gotten even! better through marriage.
Dulcie Edis: My husband and I lived together for 8 years before marrying and in the last 5 months since we married our relationship has gotten better. The bond between us seems to have gotten stronger.
Brian Marquina: I think, given that she wasn't invited in the first place, but invited herself and somehow turned into the designated driver and there was no discussion about gas money before you left, then no. Ethel seems to mooch off everyone, and she's fine with that, but when it comes to people 'owing' her, she's very self righteous!
Sena Highman: Their is no such thing as a perfect marriage or a perfect partner relationships, so why get married or get into a serious long term relationship -right?? But every single night, I enjoy hot sex with my wife, day in and day out! For the past 14 years of marriage. I get to hug her, kiss her, caress her, snuggle up tightly every night, even though we both have heated arguments at day ! time. Enjoy the moment of happiness now, because tomorrow may never be the same ever again. Just take your not so 100% perfect marriage life one day at a time. Thanks God for the creation of a beautiful woman. My life would really suck, if women in this world did not exist. Cheer Up!edit: If U R 100% healthy with no health problems, then live it up to the max! 40y/o Life of a Party husband here!...Show more
Vince Delarge: *Don't like my feelings and emotions stomp on and thrown into the trash.*Proves their choice in the male was a mistake as the male provided evidence he is worthless.*Lets face it, rejection.*Trust is damaged.You are not a wise guy for asking such a question. It is not that easy to go from a relationship that a lot of emotion, trust and hard times and then jump into another relationship in fear of that person hurting her again. No one likes to be hurt and if can't trust the person you are with, then who can you trust? It ties into sociological, b! ehavioral and emotional mentality that can change a person's way of lif! e.There is most who do move on. Can't forget, but can move on. Then there is others who has been stomp on so much that they loose their self worth.....which is sad to watch what they will do to get that attention they are lacking.
Ester Bryand: You are talking to the wrong people. First of all why would you marry some one if you have a bad relationship when dating?
Kalyn Proietto: Why do girls hate it when they get cheated on? Is it like a hit to their ego or something? Why is it such a big deal if they get cheated on?
Bibi Tyron: I went on facebook looking for a lady a bowled with in the winter because she emailed me and told me that is where she was at to make a long story short when I pulled up facebook there was my husband having a very sexy conversation thru the messages everything he said was disrespectful to me it just wasn't an innocent online conversation he even offered her his phone number so I start doing some research online and found out h! e was also talking to other women over the phone. He has cheated on me in the pass but I forgave him and trusted he wouldn't do it again that time it was physical contact and this time it was emotional online contact something like that Gov of SC. He tells me he didn't do anything with these women so I shouldn't call him a cheater because all he did was talk. I need to leave now before I go crazy but Im not in a position to leave because I don't work and my family is in NJ so I have to wait until one of them come and help me drive up there and take some of my things. Is this grounds for divorce or Im I taking this over the top?...Show more
Moises Rupinski: If you have a bad relationship not married you will have a bad relationship being married.
Tosha Tawney: Cheating is cheating. You do not have to justify yourself to him and how you feel. You took the time to trust him again and all he did was throw it away again. Just like an habitual cheater, he then says he! 's not cheating and you have a problem because you don't like it. this ! is why so many people give advice on here to leave after the first cheating session. Not all men cheat again, but far too many of them do. You did a wonderful thing for yourself by giving him another chance. He blew it and he knows it. He could have a mental problem that is stopping him from being faithful, but that's his problem to contend with in the long run. Some men simply never stop cheating ever. Almost feel as if it's their right as men to screw around. Best of luck with you. As for my opinion... i'd leave him after that as well....Show more
Alisia Sutphen: my husband and i have been married for almost 10 years and yes uor relationship has changed a lot in those years because we have changed ,our family has grown too ,what we want from life now is not what we wanted 10 years ago ,but in no way has it got worse ,it has got better evety year ,don't get me wrong ,we have had our ups and downs ,plenty of them,but in the long run all our problems,and things we have! been through ,good and bad ,has only tightened our bond ,not just as a couple ,but as parents also ,our marriage is most definitley better ,all round, now than when we first met and married!!!...Show more
Keven Woodington: Girl I am in the exact same situation. I know how you feel. This mixed emotions can get to you. It's hard to decide what to do because you love that man but you are tired of getting hurt. You want things to be like they used to but they only gets worse . I know girl I know. So, take it from someone who is in the same situation, do whatever you feel in YOUR heart is the right thing to do. Weigh your options and see what will be the best long-term decision. If you decide to go I know it will hurt but just think of how much better off you will be down the road when you meet that perfect man that will give you everything you deserve and so much more. If you love something then let it go, if it comes back it is truly yours and if it doesn't then it neve! r was. Think about it. It is not an overnight decision when it effects ! your entire life....Show more
Joellen Zorrilla: Look up the word CHEAT in the dictionary. It always involves lying and sneaking around. Isn't this a big deal for guys?
Isaias Badgley: leave. If he was truely sorry about cheating and didnt have a problem, he wouldnt be giving you reason to believe otherwise. Like talking to these women? Whats the point? If you would have never found that what would those relationships have turned into. Get out girl. You deserve better.
Delmer Pectol: We get upset and hurt because we feel betrayed and like we are not good enough for our husbands or man. Would you not be hurt if you were cheated on by your wife or woman in your life or do you just not have any feelings or emotions at all? This is a big deal to get cheated on just like it is a BIG deal if the guy is the one being cheated on... Come on you really need to get a life and care about how other people feel about things and not just your feelings and what you think. ! You seem selfish.
David Boehler: why dont u like having ur nutz kicked into ur throat? is it because it hurt, or its it a blow to your ego as a man? I dont see why it is such a big deal if a man gets his nutz kicked in.. Additional Details51 seconds agoi mean... if it happened why cant u just move on? why do you have to get upset first? Lmao ..Rolls eyes..
Mayola Sylva: i mean... if it happened why cant u just move on? why do you have to get upset first?
Jackson Esmiol: Well you should have left him the first time he cheated on you. You choose to stay and now you are stuck. He isn't going to change for you. He doesn't respect you and you already know that by his past escapades. You need to get out and move on. I am sure if you told your family now what was going on they would come out now and help. Why wait for them? Things are only going to get worse.
Roni Kurz: My parents' marriage has gotten better with time. They've been married for 58 years. M! y first marriage lasted 34 years. My sister was married for 34 years b! efore her husband passed away unexpectedly. She had a terrific marriage. I won't try to hide the bad in these relationships. All of them had their ups and downs. But they hung in there despite the downs. Too many couples today want out way too soon.
Toby Caswell: mine got so much better, i dont know why. everything just became very perfect with mine.
Stanton Valdivia: Its Ethel's choice to be in on everything So no you don't owe her anything
Ayesha Genova: The underlying answer is evolution based. Women who pass their genes onto their daughters have successfully brought up their children. This means they probably had a partner who stuck with them in a relationship and helped bring up the children and support the mother. The fear of abandonment is both an emotional and an instinct carved into our DNA and our cultural set of morals. There is also the social aspect a woman's status in society is partly based on how she is seen by her peers. Having her gu! y cheat on her, lowers her status as perceived by others and her own self esteem. She may even by marginalised by other females, as being a female without a male she becomes a threat to the stability of their own relationships. Society has changed, women no longer face destitution if they have no partner, and relationships do not necessarily lead children being born - so the original source of the concerns is much weaker nowadays. However emotions, instinct and cultural moral codes change slowly and this is why it can be so devastating.
Linwood Mccory: if you have your family's support, leave him. and yes, you have grounds for divorce.
Susan Rambo: Can't help you there... mine definitely got worse!!!
Vern Serratos: Yes ma'am! Divorce him, leave him, make him pay alimony until you get on your feet. It doesn't sound like you have kids - thank goodness it isn't any harder for you. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't let him do that to you any more. You de! serve better. And, incidentally, if I were you... I'd have your friends! and relatives move everything you have the next time he's at work or gone. Then leave the divorce papers on the kitchen table with a note saying "sign these before you call me," and get the hell out....Show more
Ofelia Kieck: What happened, you got caught cheating and are trying to justify it?Cheating is cheating and it hurts guys the same as girls. The big deal is you lead someone on they are special to you and then break that trust.I hope your girlfriend has a brother that will kick you butt for being so stupid.
Ninfa Aronica: B/c we view it as being played, cause, it looks like the guy only wants the girl just to say that he has one. We don't like being treated like we are whores. ya, to some girls, it is a big hit to their ego. But others like me will just find some way to get back at them.
Buster Buchko: Sorry, can't help you. Our marriage has definitely had its ups and downs.
Bo Perham: BOTH men and women hate to be cheated on. Yes, it is a f! orm of rejection. It's an emotional rejection. I don't know anyone who thinks it's not a big deal unless you're a player.
Betsey Copp: sure leave him you have a solid reason to do so and your family is behind you.
Nicolasa Henke: Obviously he is seeking attention from other women and not even thinking about how you feel about it. He is trying to justify what he is doing and bottom line is, he is not putting his marriage first, not respectng you, and doing this after he already cheated on you in the past. he has not changed. If I were you I would would leave asap, talk to your family and let them know there is an urgency because you are in a bad situation that u need to separate yourself from. Whether or not you want him still or still love him, he won't learn anything from his mistakes or games by you just sticking around. he will just try to hide it more. You deserve better than that, he isn't even remoreful of his past crimes towards you....Show more
Moi! ses Rupinski: I don't think so.
Porfirio Gartland: Talking like t! hat means he wants to......leave now, and remember to partially blame yourself for sticking in the relationship this long....
Jacques Teri: My husband and I have gotten a lot closer and are even happier since we got married. :) And we've got two beautiful little girls to show for it. I wouldn't change a thing.Edit: All marriages have ups and downs just like any other relationship does. They take work, but it is worth it to be with the one you love.
Hobert Dula: Because your trust has been broken and that is very hard to get back , their is a thing called betrayal , and hurt because you thought that the person was only sleeping with you just stop and think about things a little before. How many girls do you slepted with ? ok now every girl you ever slepted with your wife or what ever you just made her sleep with every one of them increasing the chances of her caching some bad like V.D and ect.and DO NOT FORGET ABOUT AIDS do you want that ?, Yes and every ! guy she has slepted with in the passed you slepted with ever one of them too so think first before some eles spreds that **** around ok
Dorris Homola: Don't you deserve to be with someone who treats you better.Make your plans and make it happen. - whatever it takes.
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